We are rapidly approaching the seven year anniversary of our mom's death on the last day of March, 2009. I increasingly see the value of strong and Godly mothers in the lives of children. I wrote this the day after she died.
Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
Psalm 19:14
I've always defined home as wherever my parents are. My first trip home, by that definition, came when my folks moved to California for one year as I entered college. It was a looooong drive from York, Nebraska to Thousand Oaks, California. Yesterday, I made my last trip home. As I stood in line waiting to board my Southwest flight in the tunnel, two women behind me were swearing loudly, using the most vulgar profanities. I cringed. I cringed because of my mother. To Mom, gee-gosh-golly were forbidden words that were never to be uttered and we were scolded when they blurted from our lips. I could never imagine those words even crossing the mind of Mom. I would guess her sense of proper and Godly speech came from her mother, my grandmother, who passed away before I was born. The things we are taught from the cradle stay with us. I mentioned at Dad's funeral that I can't chew gum in worship because of Mom. But there are so many things I can do because of her. A mother's exposure to and influence on her little ones might be the single greatest determining factor of success in a child's life. I know hymns because of my mother. I know the Word of God because of my mother. And I know right from wrong-even though I chose to ignore it at times- because of her, too. Dad used to tell me I wasn't married because I had never found one just like Mom. I think he was wrong on the marriage part but he was right on the uniqueness angle- Mom was one-of-a-kind.
Applicable quote of the day:
"A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnecessary."
Dorothy Canfield Fisher
Applicable quote of the day, # 2:
""What the mother sings to the cradle goes all the way down to the coffin."
Henry Ward Beecher
God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1
Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
Psalm 19:14
I've always defined home as wherever my parents are. My first trip home, by that definition, came when my folks moved to California for one year as I entered college. It was a looooong drive from York, Nebraska to Thousand Oaks, California. Yesterday, I made my last trip home. As I stood in line waiting to board my Southwest flight in the tunnel, two women behind me were swearing loudly, using the most vulgar profanities. I cringed. I cringed because of my mother. To Mom, gee-gosh-golly were forbidden words that were never to be uttered and we were scolded when they blurted from our lips. I could never imagine those words even crossing the mind of Mom. I would guess her sense of proper and Godly speech came from her mother, my grandmother, who passed away before I was born. The things we are taught from the cradle stay with us. I mentioned at Dad's funeral that I can't chew gum in worship because of Mom. But there are so many things I can do because of her. A mother's exposure to and influence on her little ones might be the single greatest determining factor of success in a child's life. I know hymns because of my mother. I know the Word of God because of my mother. And I know right from wrong-even though I chose to ignore it at times- because of her, too. Dad used to tell me I wasn't married because I had never found one just like Mom. I think he was wrong on the marriage part but he was right on the uniqueness angle- Mom was one-of-a-kind.
Applicable quote of the day:
"A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnecessary."
Dorothy Canfield Fisher
Applicable quote of the day, # 2:
""What the mother sings to the cradle goes all the way down to the coffin."
Henry Ward Beecher
God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1
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