Coach Hawley's Most Excellent Adventure!

 

Coach Hawley's Most Excellent Adventure!

Last Thursday night was our WCS graduation. I have been blessed to teach most of the newest alumni and many of them twice, in both middle school and as juniors. In three months, we start all over again! This is from August 20, 2014. PS One of my this year 8th graders, Evelyn, who was my  student AND basketball player, still calls me "MOST EXCELLENT COACH HAWLEY!"

We had our first quiz of 2014-2015 yesterday in my two eighth grade Bible classes. Our almost-graduated-from-middle-schoolers spend the entire year studying the Gospel of Luke and the assignment on Tuesday was Luke 1:1-25. There were sixteen questions and the grade results were not what I had hoped. I am happy to state that many of the youngsters were also unhappy with their marks, a sign that grades and aptitude matter. It was the first Bible quiz ever for some of our kids as they are new to WCS and they will adapt. If you are not well acquainted with the book of Luke, it is the longest Gospel and was penned by the man it was named after, who was a Gentile doctor. It is written to Theophilus, whose name translated means Friend Of God. That's a pretty good name to have, especially if it's accurate!

As we begin reading Luke chapter 1, we find that Luke addresses Theophilus as most excellent. We talk about how we would address Queen Elizabeth should we meet her as Your Highness. I'll tell them how we as Americans came to address our president simply as Mr. President. I'll tell them how the most excellent is dropped by Luke when he pens the book of Acts, again to Theophilus, and how some scholars believe Theophilus must have become a Christian between the two discourses. We'll get to all that. But we still have the issue of a low grade in the meantime. So, I came up with a possible solution. I might be persuaded to add a point to their test grades next week if for the next five days they refer to me in speech as ''MOST EXCELLENT COACH HAWLEY!'' Not surprisingly, the response has been overwhelming! Today, I heard it in the hallways, in the cafeteria, in the gym, and in my classroom. It even showed up on a number of memory verses this afternoon, as in "Nice tie, Most Excellent Coach Hawley!" This too will pass, albeit in five or so days.

This is what I like. The kids are laughing and smiling when they say it. They know it's silly but they can kid me with no repercussions and they want to improve their grades. I think anybody can respect that. We know in Christ we are equal and that no one is more excellent than anyone else. We are a royal priesthood and we don't require a title to prove it. Ten chapters ahead of where we are now, Jesus told His disciples they should rejoice because their names are written in heaven. I can only hope that our names are listed alphabetically in the sacred Book of Life; Theophilus would come right after Steve! And there would be only one possible response to that good news: excellent!

Applicable quote of the day:
"It is not titles that honour men, but men that honour titles.”
Niccolò Machiavelli 


God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1

You Wear It Well

 

You Wear It Well

Teaching teens and barely teens, I see quite a few kids who aren't sure who they want to be or at least who they want others to perceive them to be.  Sometimes, we find it uncomfortable to be ourselves and I find it refreshing to see folks who know who they are and accept it.  Once a  year, when I talk about Jesus and His authority as something people recognized, I show an episode of The Andy Griffith Show.  Here is something amazing: many of my students have never heard of The Andy Griffith Show...which means they have ever heard of Barney Fife. You could teach Bible lessons from Don Knotts' character and some people have. We all have flaws and Barney's were often glaring but that's why we loved him. The following is from 2-28-06.

I don't believe in omens but for three straight days, I heard Rod Stewart's hit You Wear It Well on 107.5 FM radio. It seemed like a great title for today's entry so here goes. You can't turn on television or open a magazine without seeing weight loss ads. It might be through diets or supplements or exercise but the goal is the same. One common theme these advertisements share is old clothes. In before and after pictures, we see how the dramatically slimmer customer no longer fits into former wardrobes. It's amazing to see the transformation. We go through life wanting our clothes to fit and suddenly, we are overjoyed when they don't. God bless those who struggle to maintain a certain fitness level. It isn't easy for everyone. Part of us always wants to be changing into the new and improved us. Plastic surgery and cosmetics can change our outward appearance. The inside is harder to deal with.

Don Knotts died this week at eighty-one. To generations, he was simply Barney Fife, the role he perfected in his years on The Andy Griffith Show. The winner of five Emmy Awards for Best Supporting Actor, Barney was the show to me. He had bumbling down to an art form. We knew he had a good heart and tried to do right but he always messed up. He was so human, a representation of Average Joe. Even when he played in other TV series or in the movies, he played the same role. Oh, the name of the character would change from job to job but he was still Barney Fife. That's what I admired about Don Knotts. I never saw him play a romantic lead or an avenging hero. He knew who he was and he wasn't ashamed of it. He was a nice guy who was brilliant at what he did. In the words of Rod Stewart, Don Knotts wore it well. I saw a cable network is running a 48 hour Barney Fife marathon. I can't think of a more fitting tribute to the only actor who could make "Nip it in the bud!" one of the most memorable lines in television history.

What do I learn from Don Knotts? He was typecast but is that so bad? Isn't that what we want people to see in us, consistency in our life? I would prefer others knew what they were getting when their lives crossed mine and not have to predict my unreliable behavior. I would also hope that I could accept who I am and not be embarrassed by my strong points. Many coaches, especially young ones, mimic famous coaches to the degree they never develop their own style or personality. Christians do that, too. We model ourselves after other Christians instead of being who we are, a child of God. Barney wasn't Andy and when he tried to be, he failed miserably. On the other hand, Andy wasn't Barney but he recognized the gifts and passion that his deputy did have... and honored them. Most of us would rather be Andy than Barney but the world needs them both, just like the world needs you and me.


Applicable quote of the day:
"If there's anything that upsets me, it's having people say I'm sensitive."
Barney Fife

God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1

Dave And Kaeden

 

Dave And Kaeden

 Kaeden is now a rising sophomore!, This entry about Kaeden is from May 23, 2018!
We're almost finished counting our Honduras/Haiti money for the 2018 collection. I said ALMOST because it keeps coming in! A first grade angel named Reagan brought her bank bottle to my door this afternoon accompanied by her teacher, Mrs. Sarah Romain, who happened to be my student a few years back! As she walked out, Sarah lifted Reagan up to touch our LUKE 18:1 sign on the door, a tradition we've had for close to two decades. Reagan looked back at me and asked if she could bring her bottle back if she acquired some more pennies. Of course! But I also reminded her that she can save it for next year. Tomorrow night, Ryan and Jo Lynn are going to bring their daughters and their bottles for the fourth year in a row! Ryan is a WCS alumnus and even though his and Jo Lynn's two girls go to another school, they are integral parts of what we do in this annual project. So, if they bring it, we will count it!

That brings me to Kaeden, who is only seven years old but has already been the subject of two of my previous blogs. He's a Westbury Christian first grader and his three sisters are our students as well. On top of that, his dad, Kenneth, teaches and coaches for us and his mom, Lynnette, is the head of our PTO! Do you remember that beverage commercial with The Most Interesting Man In The World angle? That's Kaeden, substituting Child for Man. He acts like I don't exist and yet there is obviously a thought process going on that isn't always evident to grown ups. Two weeks ago, Kenneth related some things to me about Kaeden and his Honduras/Haiti bottle. It was so intriguing and touching, I asked Kenneth to write it out and allow me to print it in a devotional. Here it is:

During Christmas when Kaeden was three, I gave him three envelopes that came from a Financial Peace Jr. Kit by Dave Ramsey.  The envelopes were titled "Give, Save, Spend".   I showed him that when we get money we are to divide any it into the envelopes in the order of give, save, and then lastly, spend.  He works off of commissions in the house, meaning that if he works, he gets paid and if he doesn't work, he doesn't get paid.  He will do certain chores around the house as well as extra things like, clean the car, or flatten boxes to recycle for a dime a box.  It has taken time to build some consistency using the system, but he is starting to get really good at it now at age 7.  The whole purpose for teaching him this is for Kaeden to be able to use money as a tool to further the kingdom of God, and not let it enslave him as it has done many in this world.  I also want him to have the discipline of giving because that is what Jesus did, and I want him to become more like Him.  A few weeks ago I had a real proud dad moment when Kaeden asked "Daddy, can I put all the money that I earn in the Honduras bottle?"  I was touched as a father because he was genuine in his request.  He really wants to help those who are in need.  He may not understand fully what he is doing now, but I pray that he will continue to have this attitude as he grows and matures as a man of God.

WOW. I've penned several entries about Dave Ramsey, a financial planner who puts the Lord at the head of all his advice. Several schools where I've taught have used his materials to teach wisdom in money. I've never heard a child as young as Kaeden being trained this way and like Kenneth says, it's a process. (One of my blogs about Kaeden from two years ago was about his trying to hide money he was supposed to put in the collection plate!) But for a child to have the unselfish heart Kaeden is displaying is just amazing. I've found little ones are much more generous with money because they know their moms and dads will provide for them, sometimes with the parental alter ego of The Tooth Fairy. Shouldn't we have at least that much faith in our Father? Jesus told us that your Father knows you need them.  Them is the necessities of life. Kaeden gets it. And so, youngsters in Haiti and Honduras that Kaeden will never meet will be blessed. Maybe that's why the Savior preached that the kingdom of heaven belongs to little children. I'd say it's in very good hands with Kaeden.

Applicable quote of the day:
“It is the heart that does the giving; the fingers only let go.”
Nigerian proverb

God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1

Ninety-nine Isn't One Hundred

 

Ninety-nine Isn't One Hundred

School is out but we still have some pennies to count! This is from May 22, 2018!
Last Tuesday, as I do at the end of each school day,  I was standing in front of our upper school office in one of my unofficial roles of crowd controller. As often happens, I was standing with my colleague who fills the same unpaid role. I enjoy the five minute assignment; we get to say good bye to the kids for the day as well as remind some of missing homework/tests. We're often asked questions as well. Cindi fields inquiries about her availability to proctor make-up tests which is perhaps her most important task involving our student body. I get feedback from my classes as well as interactions with the kids who have moved past me to higher grade levels. On Tuesday, a young man stopped to speak with me about what was on his mind. It didn't have anything to do with a quiz or a memory verse. Actually, it had to do with something considered insignificant to many. What was on his mind was pennies. Truthfully, it might have been only one. Let me explain.

I hope this is not monotonous as I mention this several times in blogs this time of year but our WCS family has helped build and sustain Christian orphanages in Honduras and now Haiti for two decades. We collect loose change beginning in January and the kids turn their pennies/nickels/dimes/quarters in to me at the beginning of May. My students do all the sorting and counting before we deposit what we amass in plastic bank bags. That Tuesday morning, we had been counting pennies in that young man's eighth grade class. We didn't count much- only seven dollars worth of pennies to finish a bag of $25 which the previous class had not quite completed. That's what my student had on his heart. He had some problem formulating the words but he was afraid he might have miscounted his container of 100 pennies. Here's what is interesting. This youngster is the most careful, most deliberate student I've taught in years. My guess, based on his nature, is that he was perfectly accurate but in his mind he wasn't totally convinced. I reassured him of my confidence in his accuracy and he seemed to moved past it. When we counted again later in the week, he was back to being his same careful self. My prayer is that he never changes. 

When we start counting each May, I make a big deal about cheating. If we are under one penny/nickel/dime/quarter in a bag, we cheat the bank. If we are over one penny/nickel/dime/quarter in a bag, we cheat the kids we are trying to help in Honduras and Haiti. My goal is to get the kids to be aware of what they are doing. If we are intentionally silly or careless, there is a sense we are being dishonest. That struck a nerve with this young man. He wasn't being silly- he's very mature for a middle schooler. Mistakes happen, even honest ones, but he didn't want to make even the understandable kind. Jesus taught when we display trustworthiness in small matters it will lead to greater matters. With that in mind, I know a soon to be freshman who seems destined for amazing things. I'm counting on it.

Applicable quote of the day:
Conscience is the authentic voice of God to you. 
Rutherford B. Hayes

God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1

Ask And Ye Shall Receive

 

Ask And Ye Shall Receive

Do you ever wonder if the Lord gets tired of forgiving you, especially for the same things? In spite of the scriptures many references to the Father's longing to forgive His children, guilt can override our desire to be recociled to our Maker. The following, from December of 2005, is about the value of ASKING!

I learned a lesson today. I rarely use my MasterCard. (I do contribute back to my alma mater, Harding University, with each use!) My only consistent bill is the $20 monthly fee for my book's website. Somehow, probably because of Thanksgiving, I was four days overdue with my payment. My bill came in several days ago with a $15 late fee, pretty steep when the original charge is only $20. Trying to do what I believe is my Christian obligation of being a good steward and getting every penny back I am legally entitled to, I asked Jean Adams, our school accountant and a CPA, if the late fee could be written off as a business expense. She wasn't sure but she did say there was an alternative. Jean suggested calling MBNA, the parent company, and ask if they would waive the late fee because I pay my bills on time. Her idea terrified me. I am the least confrontational person you'll meet and the thought of asking for debt forgiveness made me shake. I mean, the person on the other end of the line might get mad at me. But, fifteen dollars IS fifteen dollars so I bit the bullet. Of course, I sat in Jean's office for moral support- she even dialed and pushed the option buttons. A voice came on the other end, the unknown, unseen Debra. Guess what? She looked at my record and was happy to do it- I mean she almost acted thrilled! It was like I was doing them a favor by my request! She went on and on about what a valued customer I am- and remember, my total debt works out to less than 60 cents per day. I was glowing when I hung up the phone. It was so easy. What was I so scared of? Just think; if Jean hadn't brought it up, I would have let it keep eating at me.

I know you know where I am going with this. Most of us need forgiveness from someone but we won't ask. We have a million reasons so we let it go and it never solves itself. It might be a relative, a co-worker, a neighbor, or most importantly, the Lord. It's there- go for it! Maybe my task today is being for you what Jean was for me. It's only a phone call, an e-mail, a knock on the door, or a prayer away. Go on! To quote Jean, what do you have to lose? The answer-GUILT! Happy forgiveness!

Applicable quote of the day:
"The glory of Christianity is to conquer by forgiveness." 
William Blake

God bless,
Steve, 'The Forgiven'
Luke 18:1

The Mind Of John Milton

 

The Mind Of John Milton

I'm always in awe of the talent the Lord has put into people. This is from August 14, 2014.

You probably don't remember this but on December 30, 2012 I wrote a devotional printed here called, "Hymn Not Me." The gist of it was that I had made the decision to write a hymn sometime in my life. I'm not really any closer to authoring a musical tribute to the Lord but I have thought about it. I'm much more in tune with the older hymns than the ones often preferred today. One of the reasons hit me when I was worshipping in Vietnam where the church I worship with uses English hymns translated into Vietnamese, and incidentally, sing every verse. I like the old church songs because they have distinctive verses and choruses. Each verse sounds like the others and each time you sing the chorus/refrain, it is identical. I like a starting point and ending point and repeating. With many of the newer hymns, all the sections seem to me to blend into each other and run together. It isn't that the message lacks depth or spirituality- I just get lost. I would guess that comes from the familiarity I have with the type of hymns we sang when I was a boy in worship services and with our family.

The other day I was thinking about the type of hymn I would like to write, not the longevity or acclaim which would be nice, but more the style. One of my favorite hymns from childhood, Let Us With A Gladsome Mind, popped into my head so I googled it. I discovered several surprising facts in the process. First, the author was John Milton, probably best known as the author of Paradise Lost. Secondly, Milton penned the hymn in 1623 as a paraphrase of Psalm 136. And thirdly, the stunner to me, he was fifteen years old when he wrote this timeless hymn. FIFTEEN! That's younger than half of my students this year. Immortal words that I can never approach from the mind and pen of a young man who could not get a driver's license should he reappear in 21st century America. In 1st Timothy 4:12, Paul wrote his young colleague to, 
"Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity."
Milton must have taken Paul's admonition to heart. I hope my students will this year as well. They can change the world. They just have to believe it.

Let us, with a gladsome mind,
Praise the Lord, for He is kind.

(Refrain)

For His mercies aye endure,
Ever faithful, ever sure.

Let us blaze His Name abroad,
For of gods He is the God.

(Refrain)

He with all commanding might
Filled the new made world with light.

(Refrain)

He hath, with a piteous eye,
Looked upon our misery.

(Refrain)

He the golden tressèd sun
Caused all day his course to run.

(Refrain)

Th’horned moon to shine by night;
’Mid her spangled sisters bright.

(Refrain)

All things living He doth feed,
His full hand supplies their need.

(Refrain)

Let us, then with gladsome mind,
Praise the Lord, for He is kind.

Applicable quote of the day:
You know when you're young you think you will always be. As you become more fragile, you reflect and you realize how much comfort can come from the past. Hymns can carry you into the future.

Andy Griffith

To listen to Let Us With A Gladsome Mind, copy and paste the link below!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zVJ9ePKw0ls

God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1

Shame On You, Shame On Me

 

Shame On You, Shame On Me

We live in a culture where profanity and crudeness of speech has become the norm. Call me a sexist- I've been called worse- but it bothers me more when girls use language unbefitting to themselves or their families or the Lord. The following is from July 17, 2008.

She didn't see me. I was in a big department store yesterday replacing some of the items stolen along with my suitcases last Saturday in Honduras. (A friend read of my plight and mailed me a $50 gift card. She also left explicit instructions that I had to replace my Lucky You Cologne before my China adventure which begins tomorrow!) The she who did not see me is a former student of mine who now attends another school. I was looking for khaki shorts and she was strolling the shoe aisle when she very loudly called one of the girls with her, "B****!" She wasn't mad at the other girl; she was just engaging in teenage conversation. I made sure she did not catch sight of me until minutes later when I walked back to that section and greeted her. She was genuinely glad to see me and I told her quickly about my Honduras mishap. She has no idea I heard what she said...and I'm glad. To be truthful, I hope it would have upset her if she knew and I believe it might have. If it had happened in my classroom, I would have been mad but I wasn't angry yesterday. I wasn't even really disappointed. Probably the most accurate way to describe my reaction is that I was embarrassed for her. She just wasn't embarrassed for herself.


If you have been keeping up with my recent entries, you know I was held up getting through Customs Saturday night, causing me to miss my flight and requiring an overnight stay in Miami as the guest of American Airlines. I wasn't sleepy when I plopped down on the bed in my luxurious hotel room so I turned on the television to catch up with the world after a week with little outside contact. The first station to pop up was the one belonging to the hotel. As I recall, it had a welcoming message but then there was this: They informed their boarders that adult entertainment was available and could be ordered. That was no shock. What was printed next caught my attention, and I think this is close to word-for-word.
"No titles will appear on your bill so no one will know what you watched."
There you go! You can have your pornography and your privacy, too! Apparently, some folks would like to keep their viewing habits to themselves and this is the solution to their dilemma. Honestly, most of us have watched things on television, the movie screen, or the computer monitor that caused our consciences anxiety. Obviously, the hotel is attempting to keep the consciences of its guests off limits to those (spouses, bosses, parents) who might question what is piped into a particular room on a given night. In Ephesians 5:12, Paul wrote,
" For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret." Secrecy, to some extent, masks our shame and lets us present whatever side of ourselves we choose to the rest of the world. The privacy of a hotel room can tempt our baser nature. At times, we need the presence of others to restrain our behavior. I think my visual presence would have tempered the language of my former student, who still is one of my favorite kids in the world. I guess I'll never know...and neither will she.

Applicable quote of the day:
"Shame may restrain what law does not prohibit.”
Seneca

God bless,
Steve
Luke 18:1